Here’s why you should connect:

  • Inclusivity

    No one’s left out! We welcome Black women and fems of all abilities, personalities, and stages of life. Our community is made up of every aesthetic, style, and background you can think of.  Everyone has a seat at our table–even if we need to pull up extra chairs! 

  • New Experiences

    Through our curated events and Discord server, our community has access to various opportunities every week.

    Looking for a friend to try a new food spot? No problem. Wanting to try a new hobby with a group–drop it in the chat! We’re all about fostering meaningful friendships through enjoyable experiences.

  • Easy Access

    Our events and resources allow you to easily connect and foster friendships with other Black women. Our Discord server gives you free access to over 200 Black women intentionally looking for community;  our curated events and low-cost/free events allow you to connect over shared interests; and our social and email channels share upcoming opportunities and events happening in the city where you can link with your new bestie. 

Join the Collective on Discord

The Free To Be Discord Server is a welcoming space where members can engage in meaningful discussions and share experiences. It is moderated to ensure a respectful and safe environment for all participants.

We asked our community why they love Free to Be

  • I feel truly accepted when it comes to fostering relationships in this group nothing is based on “looks and aesthetic” which is what I have experienced in the past. I enjoy the effort that people make to maintain friendships. I think in my past people used their friends as placeholders until they got into a romantic relationship and just like relationships, friendships require effort and time.

    Kayla

  • The main aspect that I like is that it’s a safe haven for black women. I love how we come together, judgement free, and always have a good time. I adore how we come to each other’s aid when we are in need of encouraging words and we can get together in smaller groups too.

    Fa’Tima

  • Because it actually is a community. Like in real life. I love that we actually do things together, that we’ve built relationships and confided in each other. It’s such a safe space. When I moved here I literally knew of no one & nothing, and I felt really discouraged and disconnected from my authentic self while I was waiting on the opportunity to build community again. I also have a chronic illness and only just got clearance to drive yesterday. People have picked me up on multiple occasions so I could be present with them in a space. I get the same feeling being here as I did when I dormed in college.

    Shani

  • To me, this space and community feel like a place where I don’t have to mask who I am. When I first thought about joining in 2023, I hadn’t built many authentic, long-lasting friendships since moving back to ATL. As an extrovert, I often felt like I was “too much” for people, which made connecting even harder. But being here helped me realize that I don’t need a million friends to have a true community. When I’m with yall, it’s like I’m with my sisters. I didn’t grow up my siblings so it’s so nice to just have girls who actually plan things and do things. I felt wanted in a space, was longing for community.

    Jas

  • How open/receptive everyone is to friendships! It’s so hard out here to make genuine connections. I’m so glad I found yall when I did. This group popped up at a rough time last summer and I’m grateful for the connections to have made in here.

    Raeah

  • How real everyone is like everyone is very much themselves it’s like Crayon box everyone is their own person and I think that’s why our gatherings always feel so warm and inviting yet so refreshing

    Esther

  • I think it's the togetherness that makes this group so special. While there have plenty of fun activities and group settings we had, what really solidified our closeness as a group was Ruby Falls. No one made me feel left out. Many of you checked on me and really just made me feel like I'm a part of this organization.

    Bri

  • Everyone is a yapper! I love when people I don’t know are willing to yap regardless if you know them or not. It eases my social anxiety & the conversations are always good vibes

    LaTese

  • I love that it's a safe space for Black Women. I joined after being in isolation for a long time and going through a healing journey. Every time I come around in person or virtually, it feels safe to just be myself.

    Tenishia